Thursday, March 22, 2007

Randomness

I haven't blogged about anything significant in a while, and this post won't be that coherent as far as subject matter, but my thoughts are all over the spectrum today, and I really just want to get them out so that they're not cluttering my brain anymore!

It is a gorgeous spring day here in the desert. We have lots of cloud cover, a nice breeze, and temperatures in the high 60s. Heaven on earth.

I finally put my laptop back on my desk in the living room. What is the significance of this? Well, to be honest, I've been lazy for the past month or so. One night I commented to hubby that my laptop wasn't getting a strong signal to our wireless Internet connection in its location in the living room (which is my "office" - my desk overlooks the front yard). He told me to bring the laptop into the bedroom where the antenna thing was and the connection was strongest. Bingo! So, when I started getting ill and spending more time in bed, I was able to sit with the laptop on a bed-desk and blog and e-mail to my heart's content. Moving my laptop back into the living room is symbolic of my emergence from the cocoon - I'm finally feeling better. My voice has mostly returned, although I won't be singing for a while longer. The coughing has ceased for the most part, and I'm no longer dizzy.

I finalized the plans for my little getaway to Indy next month. My friend Tom has so generously offered me a place to stay, my friend Laura will take the kids to school, pick them up and keep them until Land Warrior gets off work, and I reserved my rental car last night. The one and only time I took a trip without the kids (and without hubby) was in January 2005 when I went to Vegas for 24 hours. My cousin Xenia lives there, and my sister JAX and I went up there for a shopping junket. Come to think of it, that trip was made possible because I had free plane tickets courtesy of my beauteous niece (JAX's daughter) Fly Girl, just like this time. Wow. She must really love me, huh? Anyway, this will be my first trip without family since my diagnosis in July 2005, and while I know hubby is a bit apprehensive of my being away, he's confident I know how to take care of myself. I talked to my close pal Lisa last night, and she's excited about my trip. She and I haven't had any significant "alone" time since we both became wives and mothers, so we're looking forward to a belated birthday celebration (her birthday is April 1st). Reminds me that my host, Tom, is celebrating his birthday on March 31st, so I can only assume we'll be celebrating as well.

I got word this past week that my nephew JMC is due to ship out to Iraq later this year. His BIL (I guess that would be my NIL!) is due to be shipped out to Afghanistan a month later. Sigh.

I had a dream last night that my Butler Bulldogs defeated the Florida Gators in their Sweet 16 hoops match today. One can dream, right? We'll see whether or not this comes to fruition. I'm hopeful, but not unrealistic.

My friend MA and her family are planning a move to Denver in the coming months. Sigh. This makes me sad. I live in such a transient community; most everyone here is from from somewhere else, and the average stay of the people who move here is somewhere between 2-4 years. MA and her family have been here for eons, like us, and the fact that they're moving on makes me wonder if we're here just because we're lazy or stubborn. Don't get me wrong, we like it here, but we're not "in love" with this city anymore. Every time Land Warrior gets laid off, we talk about whether or not to explore options elsewhere. To tell you the truth, though, the thought of moving anywhere back east makes us shudder, and since living in high altitude is not an option giving my condition, we can't move to fun places like Colorado. Seattle is too expensive, San Diego is out of the question financially as well, and the thought of all that rain in Portland makes me want to cry. So, here we sit in the desert, watching our friends leave one by one. When MA goes, I'll be very sad, but not inconsolable. It's just a fact of life. I still have other good friends here, some of whom are either natives (ye gads!) or have been here for a looong time like us.

My son is testing for another belt in tae kwon do on the 31st. The significance of this is that after he completes the test, he will officially be out of the "Little Dragons" program. The Little Dragons program is for kids 3-7 years of age and gives them the fundamentals of tae kwon do. After his testing, my son will be in the junior level program which can lead to a black belt if he so desires and applies himself. At first he was sad to leave the Little Dragons, but now he's really stoked. I have no doubt that if he wants to do it, he'll be a first degree black belt by the time he's in high school.

Morgen and Janna posted yesterday about commenting on readers' comments and how this could be handled. I've been ruminating over this myself for a while, admiring how Bond, Matt-Man, and Steve Novak seem to keep up running "conversations" in their comment sections. Often I visit their blogs several times a day and go back to read the comments, just to see what's being said. I have yet to figure out how to do this here, as I'm not sure if you all would ever go back and read old comments. Maybe I'll do what Sparky does and write a separate post where I address comments from the previous week.

I think I've rambled enough about so many subjects, and I thank you if you've stuck with me through this. Have a wonderful Thursday, and remember to hug your family and friends.

Live long and prosper. (Photo blatantly stolen from Daddy Forever, with full credit given.)

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Kailani said...

I've always debated on the responding to comments thing. I try to email the person back if they ask a specific question. I'll have to check out those other sites to see how they engage conversation. My problem is that I'm away a lot and by the time I get back, there's tons of comments (not that I'm complaining :-) so I would have missed out on things. Did that make sense? LOL!

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Anndi said...

So glad the trip is working itself out.. hope you have as much fun on your trip as I had on mine!

Good luck to your son...

Daddy Forever said...

I know what you mean about comments. What to do, what to do. I have not figured a good system yet either.

I grew up in Portland so I'm use to all the rain. I guess it would be a big shock for you since you live in the desert. When I was in college, I wanted to live in the bay area, but I chicken out.

I see you are as much of a nut as I am. Live long and prosper.

Neila said...

Okay, I suck at regularly commenting on my favorite blogs, much less my own.

I am glad you are feeling better, and got to enjoy such a beautiful day.

Sparky Duck said...

ok, the desert city has always been transient and getting more and more crowded. i mean you people are threatening us here population wise.

It does not rain as much as you think in Portland.

I soooo pray Butler wins, since my pool is now shot and I just want all the so called favorites to lose

Empress Bee (of the High Sea) said...

you know regardind the comments i don't think people would come back to mine to read again. i don't know why but i don't. and i am sure i miss alot of comments back to me by MY not going back there, but honestly once is about my limit to visit. feel better honey, we have been so sick here, barely keeping our heads above water, both of us have it now. the prednesone is not even helping me feel better, the antibiotics are over, and i am still sick. sigh...

smiles, bee

Sunrunner said...

Can you visit Denver? If you can, feel free to visit us if and when you visit your friend MA! Glad you're feeling better! Why is the high altitude a problem?

Kila said...

I hope you have a wonderful trip and fun "ladies only" time! I'm jealous ;)

Congratulations to your boy regarding Tae Kwon Do! My boys loved it, too. We did it for 2 years, but recently quit--got too expensive, and the boys want to devote time to other sports. We will probably go back to it eventually.

Christine said...

I'm so glad you get to get away! Sounds like a real fun trip!
I've tried responding to comments, and emailed a few times. I like how Sparky does it too, responding once a week on a post sounds like a great idea.
Have a great weekend!
~Christine
www.arewethereyetmom.com

Tonya said...

I hope you have a fantastic time :) I know I have been blog slacking alot lately myself.. Have a good one!

Sanni said...

I´m sucking big time commenting on my fave blogs at present... and responding, of course, too. =(

Have a fantastic time!

*SMOOCH*

SGT DUB said...

Glad you are feeling better, don't over due it, this way your trip will be even better,
The mid west has plenty of jobs, a mixture of weather, but never in the extremes.
Tae Kwon Do is great, I always revisit the comments I write in, just for fun, but seldom write comments in my own. Live long and prosper.

Morgen said...

Hi sweetie - hope you're feeling better this weekend!
And I hope you have a better time in Indy than I did! ;)

Oh, and I didn't say that's how comments "should" be handled, I just said I liked blogs that had that "conversational" feel in the comments section, like Matt-man's, and wanted to get back to that (because I used to have it once). There's not any should or shouldn't in regards to one's own blog-comments... each blog should be a celebration of one's own individuality -- that's what makes blogging so great!

Travis said...

Glad you're feeling better.

I visit my blog list daily. And one of the first things I do is go to the previous posts from the last few days and check the comments, especially if I've asked a question.

I guess it all depends on your readers and the types of comments you receive.

BTW - I may steal your Harry Potter countdown.

Desert Flutie said...

I'm a native, one of those 'ye gads' people. When you think about it, we don't have hurricanes, tornados, earthquakes, mudslides, blizzards, or floods. Sure, we're in the middle of a drought, but for the most part, we're pretty much natural catastrophe free! (Knock on wood!)

Arnold said...

It depends on how many comments you get on a post.

When you're only talking a dozen or so, then it's probably best to reply to them as they come (time and timezone permitting, of course).

When it's hundreds, I don't think that a running conversation is viable although some do it. I've seen one or two blogs which were effectively forums and the blog comments just don't work like that: downloading 100+ comments just to get to the "add a comment" box isn't really viable in my view.

The "timezone" matters too. I've seen some blogs (eg http://superfrenchie.com) which get comments split between Europe and America which makes keeping track a nightmare.