

Local Girl over at An Island Life is running a photo contest that asks the question, "What Inspires You?"
Most of my long-time blogging friends know my family story, but because I've gained some new readers of late, and to explain why the above photo best represents my inspiration, let me share a tale of adventure and awe.
A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away....
Ooops! Sorry! Let's try this again...
My parents were born in 1924 in Indonesia. During World War II, during the Japanese occupation of Indonesia, my parents (not married at the time) were imprisoned by the Japanese. My father was tortured by the Koreans on behalf of the Japanese for his role in fighting the occupation. My mother, in order to secure additional food and other rations for her stepmother and younger siblings, became a "comfort woman" to the Japanese soldiers who guarded the women's camp.
After Indonesia gained its independence from The Netherlands, those of "mixed" or "impure" blood (i.e., not pure Indonesians) were forced to flee Indonesia or risked being killed (think: ethnic cleansing). My parents, by now married with a preschooler and an infant, escaped to The Netherlands with my oldest sisters in tow and not much else.
Years later, in order to secure more educational opportunities for their daughters, my parents immigrated to the United States. Ten months after their arrival, I was born, their fifth and last daughter and their only American-born child.
I grew up knowing the sacrifices and challenges my parents had faced. Neighborhood kids used to tease me about my brown skin, my "slitty" eyes, and my parents' "funny" accents. All the while, my parents taught me to stand proud and remember that all of those things didn't matter because I WAS AN AMERICAN.
I continue to be awed by the sight of a flag rippling in the breeze, I stand stock-still when saying the Pledge of Allegiance, and I am moved to tears when I hear/sing the National Anthem.
My parents' story is what inspires me, and the flag of The United States of America is an outward sign of what people like my parents have lived and died for for centuries. It inspires me to be a better citizen, a better person, a better friend, and a better parent. I hope my story will inspire my children to do the same.
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If you feel compelled to vote for me in this photo contest, please click here from March 9 - 11 and let Local Girl know that you vote for me, Desert Songbird at The Ice Box. You may vote once per day.
Thanks for your support!
An added note: Click here for the latest news story on Japan's role in these sexual atrocities.
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I didn't know this. What a wonderful story of sacrifice, perseverance, and survival.
Thanks for recounting this story for us newbies.
All I can say is WOW. Your story brought me to tears. And let me tell you, that's not an easy thing to do! I can't even imagine going through what your parents and family had to endure. It makes me so thankful for what I have and sometimes take for granted. Your family is a true inspiration!
An Island Life
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Songbird...I take for granted so many things. We have become so complacent as a people, as a nation - it's scary. To think that children today don't even have to memorize the Pledge of Allegiance or recite it, let alone understand it - scares me. I know a man from the Philippines who witnessed his uncle being hanged by the Japanese. His feelings mirror yours. May I never forget what you and your family and the thousands like you suffered, and may I always be humbled by stories like yours.
~~~Blessings~~~
p.s. I'm so glad you visited my site and that you're feeling better!
Great story DS. And just think, America is better off because you are here!! Cheers...
I have to echo Matty. It's such an inspirational story. I try to never take for granted being lucky enough to hae been born here and taught by my grandmother the price of our freedoms.
Excellent post sweetie.
I loved this photo and your story!
This is why I visit you... Thank you luv. For sharing and reminding people they have so much to be thankful for.
SMOOCH!
My parents came to America for better opportunites too. Can't say they had better opportunites, but my brother and I sure did.
Oh sure, make me cry first thing in the morning!!!
:)
Thank you for sharing this story with us. You're an amazing woman, and you have an amazing family. I didn't know you were the only one of your siblings born in the US.
So many of us born here take this fact for granted. I think it's wonderful that you not only know the value, but you have inspired us to remember that value.
cheers,
mo
Your parents – individually and together – must have great inner strength.
Your story not only reminds us to be grateful for the country we live in...but to also recognize the great contribution those from other countries have make to the fabric of our nation.
thank you for sharing it with us
A great story, and I'm inspired by your words too. Now, I just have to wait until the 9th to vote. darn it.
That is such a beautiful and moving post, brought me to tears too! What a truly inspirational story! Makes me really thankful for all that I've been blessed with, and not take for granted. I was going to enter, but your story gets my vote!
Have a great day, DS!
What an amazing story. Thank you for sharing it! Sometimes I really take things for granted - thank you for this reminder of all the wonderful opportunities I have in my life.
That IS an amazing story - and you tell it so eloquently. Great post. You are a very inspirational person. I will be back to visit your blog again! Very moving!
Dana
That is an amazing story. Ian's grandmother and nearly all of her family escaped Germany when they found out they were slated to go to Auschwitz. Anyone who made it through the atrocities and horrors of WWI and WWII deserve to be honored.
Beautiful and wonderfully written post! I also get teary during the National Anthem.:D
You truly are inspired! What a touching post. I am very patriotic and I feel the same about the pledge and national anthem. Great photo!
In response to your added footnote: Is it because the witnesses were women??? I saw some of them as they testified, I don't know how long ago...but it made me angry then. And we're civilized???
What a beautiful story. Your and your family's stregnth should inspire so many others to be thankful.
Stories like yours make me so proud of our country. Your family represents what America stands for. I wish all citizens were as proud as you!
My family has 'been here' for hundreds of years now, but I was raised to have the utmost respect for our country. I have been known to tear up at the National Anthem and lose focus on the road when I see a majestic Bald Eagle flying. I always thought I was kind of ooky for it all - I'm glad I'm not alone!
And that's a gorgeous picture of Old Glory!!!
Wow! What a story! Really amazing. Awesome inspiration, that's for sure...
What a wonderful reminder of what so many of us take for granted every day. I sat next to one of my daughter's classmates family last night at their American musical. They are of a different religious culture and country, but to see her children born and raised here, to see tears in her eyes as they sang their patriotic songs was very moving to me. Your story reminded me of it and how outward difference and origins don't determine what's inside! Thanks for sharing.
Hugs,
Holly
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You made me sit up a little straighter.
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